[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.beyma.sk\/mamou-navzdy\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.beyma.sk\/mamou-navzdy\/","headline":"Mamou nav\u017edy","name":"Mamou nav\u017edy","description":"Ka\u017ed\u00e1 \u017eena, ktor\u00e1 sa stala mamou vie, ak\u00fd je to pocit po prv\u00fdkr\u00e1t dr\u017ea\u0165 v\u00a0n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed svoj mali\u010dk\u00fd \u201euzl\u00ed\u010dek \u0161\u0165astia\u201c. Je to zmie\u0161an\u00e1 euf\u00f3ria , \u0161\u0165astie,","datePublished":"2017-02-28","dateModified":"2017-02-28","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.beyma.sk\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.beyma.sk\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/70bfba35016f640cc40a20bdb6eeeb519f15df7de2446955eee0a1f10ed86e77?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/70bfba35016f640cc40a20bdb6eeeb519f15df7de2446955eee0a1f10ed86e77?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"beyma.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.beyma.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a280408_w2015_t1493435050.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.beyma.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a280408_w2015_t1493435050.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.beyma.sk\/mamou-navzdy\/","wordCount":585,"articleBody":"Ka\u017ed\u00e1 \u017eena, ktor\u00e1 sa stala mamou vie, ak\u00fd je to pocit po prv\u00fdkr\u00e1t dr\u017ea\u0165 v\u00a0n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed svoj mali\u010dk\u00fd \u201euzl\u00ed\u010dek \u0161\u0165astia\u201c. Je to zmie\u0161an\u00e1 euf\u00f3ria , \u0161\u0165astie, hrdos\u0165, ale aj obavy z\u00a0toho, ako to v\u0161etko zvl\u00e1dnu\u0165. Za\u010diatky neb\u00fdvaj\u00fa v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou \u013eahk\u00e9, ale \u017eena m\u00e1 v\u00a0sebe asi zak\u00f3dovan\u00fd \u201eprogram materstvo\u201c a\u00a0postupne sa nadobudne ur\u010dit\u00e1 potrebn\u00e1 rutina, zvyk a\u00a0v\u0161etko sa dost\u00e1va do norm\u00e1lu. Do norm\u00e1lu, ale nikdy nie do v\u0161ednosti, ak\u00e1 tu bola pred pr\u00edchodom die\u0165a\u0165a na svet. T\u00fdmto okamihom sa \u00faplne v\u0161etko men\u00ed, men\u00ed sa aj samotn\u00e1 \u017eena, ktor\u00e1 sa odteraz stala in\u00fdm \u010dlovekom. Mamou. U\u017e nav\u017edy.\u00a0Hoci si to \u010dasto nechceme pripusti\u0165 a\u00a0hlavne v\u00a0obdob\u00ed dospievania to b\u00fdva najviac zlo\u017eit\u00e9, mamy zostan\u00fa mamami aj po na\u0161om n\u00e1stupe do \u0161koly, aj po maturite, aj na vysokej \u0161kole, aj po na\u0161om sob\u00e1\u0161i, aj napriek dia\u013eke, ktor\u00e1 n\u00e1s rozde\u013euje a\u00a0aj vtedy, ke\u010f to pod\u013ea n\u00e1s nepotrebujeme. Niektor\u00ed tvrdia, \u017ee mamy maj\u00fa komplikovanej\u0161ie vz\u0165ahy so svojimi dc\u00e9rami v\u00a0porovnan\u00ed s\u00a0t\u00fdm, ak\u00e9 vz\u0165ahy maj\u00fa so synmi. Je to pravda? Pre\u010do?\u00a0Ak\u00e1 matka, tak\u00e1 KatkaToto porekadlo je v\u0161eobecne zn\u00e1me a\u00a0viac-menej sa nad n\u00edm nezam\u00fd\u0161\u013eame. Ale \u010dasto je pravdiv\u00e9 a\u00a0mo\u017eno aj to b\u00fdva pr\u00ed\u010dinou \u010dast\u00fdch nezh\u00f4d medzi mamami a\u00a0ich dc\u00e9rami. Ak sa dc\u00e9ra pod\u00e1 na mamu nielen zov\u0148aj\u0161kom, ale i\u00a0povahou, nejedenkr\u00e1t to za\u010dne vo vz\u0165ahu \u0161kr\u00edpa\u0165. Mama si \u010dasto uvedomuje chyby, ktor\u00e9 sama v\u00a0detstve alebo mladosti urobila, s\u00edce to sama neprizn\u00e1, ale chce od nich uchr\u00e1ni\u0165 svoje die\u0165a. Je to prirodzen\u00e9, ale nie pr\u00e1ve najspr\u00e1vnej\u0161ie. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 mlad\u00e1 \u017eena si v\u00a0dospelosti mus\u00ed vysk\u00fa\u0161a\u0165 svoje vzlety aj p\u00e1dy a\u00a0nie nadarmo sa hovor\u00ed, \u017ee sa ka\u017ed\u00fd mus\u00ed pou\u010di\u0165 zo svojich vlastn\u00fdch ch\u00fdb. Inak to nem\u00e1 ten spr\u00e1vny efekt. Ke\u010f m\u00e1 mama tendenciu neust\u00e1le nie\u010do zakazova\u0165 bez toho, aby vysvetlila pre\u010do, m\u00e1 to za n\u00e1sledok \u00faplne opa\u010dn\u00fd efekt ako sa o\u010dak\u00e1va.\u00a0V\u00a0\u010dom je teda tajomstvo vz\u00e1jomn\u00e9ho porozumenia?T\u00fdch \u201etajomstiev\u201c je viac a\u00a0spolu tvoria perfektn\u00fd n\u00e1vod na to ako si medzi dc\u00e9rou a\u00a0mamou vybudova\u0165 kr\u00e1sny vz\u0165ah:\u00fc\u00a0 prejavova\u0165 l\u00e1sku od \u00fatleho detstva – ak die\u0165a c\u00edti, \u017ee je chcen\u00e9 a\u00a0milovan\u00e9, nadob\u00fada u rodi\u010da potrebn\u00fa d\u00f4veru\u00fc\u00a0 rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 sa, rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 sa \u2013 komunik\u00e1cia je z\u00e1kladom ka\u017ed\u00e9ho vz\u0165ahu, aj toho medzi rodi\u010dom a\u00a0die\u0165a\u0165om\u00fc\u00a0 neby\u0165 autoritat\u00edvnou mamou za ka\u017ed\u00fa cenu \u2013 dc\u00e9ra m\u00e1 vedie\u0165, kto je autorita, ale treba da\u0165 najavo, \u017ee v\u0161etko, \u010do mama od dc\u00e9ry vy\u017eaduje je len pre jej dobro\u00a0\u00fc\u00a0 v\u017edy tu by\u0165 jedna pre druh\u00fa \u2013 tak ako m\u00e1 by\u0165 mama v\u00a0detstve pre dc\u00e9ru oporou, m\u00e1 by\u0165 aj v\u00a0dospelosti dc\u00e9ra oporou pre mamu ke\u010f to potrebuje\u00a0Neexistuje overen\u00fd recept na to, ako by\u0165 dobrou mamou alebo \u00fa\u017easnou dc\u00e9rou. Je ale jasn\u00e9, \u017ee v\u0161etko, \u010do mama v\u00a0detstve v\u0161tep\u00ed a\u00a0odovzd\u00e1 svojej dc\u00e9re jej raz ona v\u00a0dospelosti vynahrad\u00ed. Treba n\u00e1js\u0165 t\u00fa zlat\u00fa stredn\u00fa cestu a\u00a0vytvori\u0165 si kr\u00e1sny priate\u013esk\u00fd vz\u0165ah.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Mamou nav\u017edy","item":"https:\/\/www.beyma.sk\/mamou-navzdy\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]